If you are in immediate danger, call 911. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is 1-800-799-7233 (or text START to 88788).

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Protecting yourself from a narcissistic parent or relative

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Support & resources

  • Emergency — 911
  • National Domestic Violence Hotline — 1-800-799-7233 — or text START to 88788 — thehotline.org
  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline — Call or text 988 — 988lifeline.org

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Last updated: 2026-06-08